You decided to express your intentions to a woman you like and since you do it, you do not seeor do not get the response you want in a few words you get rejected.
However, after the rejection andsince some time have passed the woman shows interest again, thesame woman who rejected you at first for example, while you are sleepyand have accepted the rejection suddenly you get a message which tellsyou: “Good morning, how are you?” I am Christos from Men Of Styleand today we will talk about: She rejected me, but continues to show interest.
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Let's go! We will discuss the three pillarsin this video, which are: First of all, the way of thinking secondly, how you manages a woman that rejected you and continues to show interest in messages and the third pillar is how you manage a woman when she rejected you and continues toshow interest while you are close.
You are in a mutual company and when even shehas shown you that she is not interested she has rejected you and does not wantto make a further contact with you but continues to show you some crumbs of interest Some times more, some other timesless and makes you mind a mess.
Let's see each pillar separately and analyze them.
First of all, when someone rejects us we stop showing interest because the more we chase a person who is not interested in us or has shown thatshe does not want something erotic with us the more our value decreases so the chances to do somethingwith this woman are minimized.
But once a woman rejects you butcontinues to show interest she touches you when you are close, trying to start a conversation or sends you some messages if you are notin a mutual company, for example then the things get a little confused in your mind because you can not make the things clear for yourself what is the reason or the motive of her actions.
In most cases and to tell you personally when such thing happened and believe me, that happened to me many times I thought the woman was not sure whethershe wanted more information from me In short, she wanted me “to chase her” to convinceher that she deserves to be with me she was not ready to do anything with me.
Any ways, the basis in these cases arethat the attraction is not enough or not that much to establish an eroticrelationship, an erotic contact or finally to start a further communication so that a relationship can be established.
So, the more you chase in such cases the more you look desperate, themore you look being available the more attraction will be reduced.
Of course the basis is that this woman rejects you and continues to show you interest, at least a slightly interest in most cases she is not sure about how much she likes you or she has other choices in her lifeand wants her time to evaluate them.
This is a bitter truth, but youstill have to decide yourself how and how much you want to bother with this woman.
Because there is a possibility for you to be sure to say: You know, she rejected me, I keep on going, andwhatever happens I do not want to bother again.
I accept it and it is perfectlyreasonable and in my point of view It is one of the best decisions you can make.
But there are some other caseswhere you may not have choices and want to see what you can do, you may still want her.
So it requires, when a woman rejectsyou and continues to show interest to manage it in such a way that you do not look desperate do not throw your dignity while you show that you are interested, but set some certain terms, and what do I mean by specific terms.
The most important thing to rememberis that you should not show interest basically to show the greatest interest every time the woman again shows to you thatshe is interested or may be interested.
You will need to communicate, that she can not show interest to take a step back, to show interest again to take a step back, to show interest again and you every now and then to be there, keepon communicating, keep talking endlessly because she decided that it happened orshe just wants some confirmation or just wants to talk to someone who likes her – NO! You will need to communicate thateach time she expresses interest it will be because she decided tomove your contact to the next stages In example to go out and see ifyou want to create a relationship.
Of course, this is the way of thinking, in the second pillar we have what do you do when a woman sendsyou a message after rejecting you.
For example, after three days since she rejected you after a week or a month, she sends you a message and says: “Good evening, how are you?” or “Hi, I saw you there” “I wanted to say hi, but you were with acompany and I did not know what to say” In short, to initiate a communication first after the rejection has come from her.
At this point, she puts you in a mentalposition where you do not know her motives you do not know why she sent the message, shemay be interested, she may not be interested she may be playing, or it is the timing, she could have seen a romantic comedy and suddenly she woke her romanticfeelings up and remembered you and it is simply a message and, and, and .
Any way, you will need to manage it in a very specific way and communicate once more in a veryspecific way your intentions.
So, after some messages, ask her: “When are you free to meet?” and she does not respond or answer or tells you: “You know, we will assign it” – one of the classic excuses then once again you have revealed the truth.
Because if she sent you a message becausehe regretted that she rejected you and really wants to do something with you, obviously she will accept to go out with you.
However, if she simply sent a message, because she felt like it without knowing exactly that reason or just wanted to see if you are still available to talk with her endlessly, without any further contact.
Then you can see that this woman is not interested.
Of course, if she sends you another message she sends you the first message – and you say: “When are you free to meet” She tells you: “I do not know, willsee, I will let you know” Then you do not communicate first, if she communicated a second time and tells you again: “Hey, how are you?”, “Where are you?” and such things… You follow the same plan again, you send three or four messages and then you ask, when she is free to meet if once again she says no, then there is no other chance you have suggested to meet twice, shortlyafter she has rejected you.
We always start from a point that you reallywant to do something with this woman or you have no choices at this point in your life so you say: “You know, I will claim her”, but if you want to claim to claim in your way and in a way that reveals your intentions and moves forward do not send many messages, because the things get confused.
You invest a lot and that is not the best, especially for you.
Now, if you are wondering: Yes and the second time we send three to four messages and then ask her when she is available to meet – and she tells me no and then she sends a message for a thirdtime, then you never ask her out again if she wants, she can ask to meet herself.
Do not forget that in any scenarioand if there is a rejection you should, since the woman has rejected you she should claim you more and to try to win you.
It is not possible to abolish that we can not chase and claim people who have rejected us.
But you can express your intentions in a relaxed way and to show that communication will takeplace within a specific context and within certain limits.
So if she contacts you once again, the third time without asking you to meet, then just say “Hey, but you know…, because I have a lot of work I am too busy, we can talk some other time ” cut the communication directly, if she isinterested she will you to meet.
The third pillar is when she continues to showyou interest when you are constantly meeting.
Happened for you to be in a same company you have shown her or you have expressedher verbally or through acts that you want to go further with her, but shehas shown you that she does not want to but nevertheless, when you meetshe shows a bit more interest she touches, she is teasing you, tries to talk with you learns a lot of things about you, gets in theconversation when you talk to others to participate in the discussion where you also are.
What you will need to remember first is that you do not have to be reactionary.
Any attempt to be aggressive to cut everything abruptly, to berude – there is no reason to happen.
Every person can get in their place in a very specific way and in a very nice way.
So you can communicate your intentions very clearly.
It does not really matter if you show friendlyintimacy and will be positive with her.
So, as a core, keep this: If a woman rejects you, but you like her a lot and you want to see what your real chances with her are.
The purpose is to assign a date, not to goout as friends but go out for a date.
Because the longer she shows youinterest while she has rejected you then she probably does it because she flattersthe fact of talking to someone who likes her.
Not because she really wants to do something with him.
In the past, when I was caught in such cases usually my mind went in two directions: I said, “You know, since she showedinterest, she probably is interested” So, I should keep on communicating with herso I can convince her that I deserve her or that I offer a little more time to see if she really cares.
In general, my mind was a mess on the other hand I was thinkingif I stopped communicating I will completely destroy my chances with the woman I liked.
On the contrary, what you will need to remember is the more you deal with a woman who has rejected you but she continues showing interest to you is that the more your hopes are getting revived and there is a great chance of getting stuck, out of nowhere.
So, keep things simple and straightforwardand never forget your intentions.
I am Christos from Men Of Style and today we talked about: She rejected me, but continues to show interest, Take care!.