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I am Themis from Men Of Styleand in this video we will see How to show more confidence.
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Surely, confidence when you want to flirt and to attract a woman, is something that will help.
As I have already said, to have confidenceis definitely something that will help and is a law, it is an inviolable rule that a woman wants a confident man beside her.
But if you are not confident, the questionis: Can you get more confident? Of course you can get more confident but confidence does not only appearwhen someone talks with you it also appears when someone isnot talking to you.
For example the way you behave the way you are moving, the way you stand, theway you talk, the way you are watching someone and all these features imply that you are confident before someone even meets youand comes in contact with you.
Now for the people who come in contact with you again it is pretty easy to understandif you are confident or if you are a little more indecisive, you have a little more insecurities and it is not bad to have some insecurities more or less, all of us have issuesand insecurities in some areas.
But it is good to try to becomethe best version of yourself.
Some things that separate a decisive and a sure man from a man who has insecurities are: A man who has more confidence about himself compared to a man who is a little moreinsecure, is more open-minded and the other is a bit more narrow-minded.
A man who is more confident makesthe compliments a lot easier while a man who is insecure istrying to get a compliment while a person feels confident about himself feels good on his feet, feels that he canlearn something from someone else while the other person thinks he knows everythingand has an opinion about everything.
Of course, we all have an opinion, as i have said in an older video about the opinions and how much theopinion of the others counts but you can always learn something from someone else.
In general, what separates people with confidence and people with insecurities is how they face some situations, how positive they are and how easily they can show their defectsor hide their weaknesses.
Now, of course, we may not have allbeen born to have confidence but there are certainly some ways youcan show more self-confidence.
We will discuss them right now.
The first way to show more confidence is to become clearer, especially whenyou are flirting with a woman and you are trying to go around andaround, to go through Lamia to tell her what you want, what happens in Athens you understand that you do not show thegreatest certainty about yourself.
Be clear and talk like a man to woman do not just remain in the exchange ofinformation, but try to flirt.
A man who has a purpose, has goals, shows that he also has confidence.
And that reminds me of the second way that you can show more confidenceand it is visual contact.
Sometimes it can show more confidence not what you say, but what you will not say and when you start to flirt with a womanand keep a clear eye contact then you have won a very big part of the body language.
When you flirt with a woman and look her in theeyes and show that you are not ashamed you naturally communicate that you have sexuality, thatyou are interested in her and you are okay with it.
Of course this shows a lot of confidence.
The next way to show more confidence is to start controlling yourself.
And the word “control” may have been misunderstood, but it is not a bad word at all talking about the best version of yourself.
Of course, if you talk too fast, you need to controlthe situation and talk more slowly.
So, the first thing I suggest you do is to do all the things a bit slower.
Talk a bit slower, because automatically it willshow that you can control the condition that you are not stressed so much and you are not talking fast becausethere is all this stress and all this war in your mind but you can control yourself.
And since I spoke about the body language it is understood to be a very important element to show that you have confidence or if you feela little uncomfortable in that place.
So if you feel a little uncomfortable in thatplace, usually what you do, you will gather for this, the first thing I suggest you do is to observe yourself and the body language.
But having a wooden body language, even though it will be right it does not mean that it will be attractive and confident but what it means is that you will be over-trying.
For example, you can be over-trying you have heard from somewhere that youhave to be taking a lot of space to show that I have good body language and you go to the bar and lay up, lie down or be in a chair and stretch out and show a different body language You are trying to show an “Alpha male”.
You do not have to, because every time you are over-trying, it is something that reduces your value.
What I suggest you do is to sit as you feel comfortable atfirst and observe yourself.
So, if you make a comment, youshould bend continuously or your shoulders keep being curved forwardand tend to bend your body start expanding your body, expandyour shoulders and your chest and sit straight but at the same time relaxed.
The next way to show self-confidence is to relax to pull out and to really throwaway the weight from you.
Yes, you will need to show determination you will need to be a leader and make somedecisions, especially in critical points but generally when you are flirtinga woman and having an date relax a little, have fun and do notbe afraid to show your defects if it happens to laugh about some mistakeyou, a silly thing you did – even better because this will show that you arenot afraid to face your weaknesses.
The last way to show confidence is likethe previous one and is to have fun.
When you go out, you have to lower your standards so that you do not have this perfect torn image which makes you very serious and very unrecognizable.
Also, if you start talking and socializingwith people around you you will start to entertain, but at the same time to further expand this comfort that surrounds you and when you go out to the bar you thinkthat everything within a meter around you and nobody can not enter this place.
Start talking and socializingwith other people around you.
In closing, I would want to tell you that if you do nothave confidence, you do not have to drive yourself crazy.
Make a decision to change yourself and once you make that decision keep in mind that it will not happen in a day but it may take a little longerthan what you have in mind.
It may take ten days, it may take a month may take fifty days, it may take two months but soon you will feel better.
The first thing I suggest you do is if you can not keep eye contact with anyone start to keep eye contact with people on the road and if someone looks at you a little more, just smile and you will immediately see that thereactions of people are very positive.
Still, if you do not talk to strangers at all starts talking with unknown people on the road It may be one or two minutes, some basic information and this is something that will make youfeel a little more comfortable.
It may scare you at that moment, but it will makeyou feel more comfortable right then.
So, the next way to feel that youare expanding your confidence is to make every day something that scares you.
Do not necessarily talk to strangers, because if you do that I promise you, after three, five, ten daysyou will start to feel comfortable with it.
Find some interesting things that scare you you may be afraid of Skydiving or you might be afraid of Bungee Jumping do it and you will see that while at first you wereafraid too much, in the end the reward is enormous.
I am Themis from Men Of Styleand in this video you saw How to show more confidence.
Until the next time, have fun!.