You've met her, you have startedto like her and you're constantly thinking about how you expressyour interest.
However, you have begun understandingthat things are not going as you might have expected oryou think she sees you as a friend.
I'm Christos, from Men ofStyle and today we'll talk about the 7 signsshe sees you as a friend.
Let's go! Well, sign number 1.
You do many activities together but none of them haveany kind of erotic content.
You do not kiss.
There is no sexual intercourse.
Nothing!You see her often, you communicate often.
When I say many activities, that's what I mean! You send messages all day long.
Shetalks about things that happened in her day You say some too, but there is never an erotic context in whichyou communicate.
At this stage you will need to knowit's not that she wants more time or you need to do something specialand unique, but most likely you got your head inin the friendly zone.
Let's see the second! Second sign.
While you talk to each other she tells you to goshopping together.
Yes!Let's put some things straight.
You can go shopping with a woman if you want to, especially if you want to buy something too, because her viewsare very useful, since women have a different sense ofcolors, fashion.
But you can go shopping with awoman, from the moment you have stepped into a relationship with her.
If there is no eroticframe between you guys and you go shopping with her, guess with whomelse she does go shopping with! Her girlfriends.
Don't do it! It is a sign she is already consideringyou a friend.
Let's go for the third one! The third sign is that she usually meets youin public, that is, she never comes in your place nor do you go to hers, or somewhere you can stay a little longer and alone, to movethings on to a more interesting activity, as you can imagine, becauseevery time you try to find yourself alone with her, she is always findingan excuse.
So, either you go together for a cup ofcoffee or you'll go together for a drink Your meetings usually take placein a public place, because she might be thinking that if you stayalone, things will move on to the next level.
Let's go for the next one! Fourth sign!Usually, most of the time your communication takes placefrom a distance.
This is a different extensionfrom the previous sign I mentioned However, what I want to emphasizeon is that whenever you suggest her to meet, she can't make it, orsomething has happened to her, she has 850 meetings with other people, she is too busy, choked, takes a test, justified up to a certain point she has to meet friends, peoplewho visited her from abroad, from Poseidon, I do not know! She constantly finds excuses not tomeet you.
As a result, this processmakes you believe that yes she is interested, however it'svery likely she might be seeing you friendly.
Let's go to the next! Fifth!She's trying to hook you up with a friend of hers or to an acqaintance.
Be careful!She is not testing you to check if you are really interested in herand if you discard all the others.
That is, if she tells you that:”You know something? There's this one girl which is the only one “Don't play act like a nice guy would do and say:”Oh, well, my mind is somewhere else “Yes!This won't work unless of course you really do not like this girlfriend of herswho wants to meet you.
However, when she gets into the processof introducing you to another woman, it means she is notinterested in you.
When a woman is interested, she will not try to pass you to some of her friends, or whatever but she will try to keep youfor herself and show how interested she really is.
Let's go to the next! Sign number 6.
The story of my life.
She is crying on your shoulder for someonewho rejected her and she has a crush on, whileasking for advice on what to do and you just sit thereconsoling her.
That's a mistake!Tips for other men, are provided by her girlfriends.
Unless you're a girlfriend of hers.
Or a friend.
So, you understand that in this case, the erotic interestis most likely non-existent.
What I want to say is that:If a woman is interested in you and she does not see youfriendly, she will not constantly ask or tell youstuff about other men.
Of course not!Why would she want to do that: “You know something? I'm not interestedin you, I'm interested in someone else ” So, the odds of you leaving orstop even bothering, are increased.
Simple and reasonable things orotherwise Apla + Andrika.
[word play] Seventh sign.
While you are talking to each other, she seems all troubledwondering why she does not meet men like you and at thatmoment you pour smoke out of your ears horns, tails, anything.
You are irritated of course.
why? Because she is sending you a mixed signal.
On the one hand she says:”You are very special”, on the other hand, she's saying:”There is no erotic progression, in our communication.
” In these cases, when she tells yousomething like this, it's not for the best.
So, if you start hearing things like: “I can't find someone like you””You are so good! Why can't I have who can listen to me like you do ” Though you may think allthese are compliments and signs of interest, most likely theyshow the opposite.
That is, you are fullwithin the friend zone.
Some things you'll need to rememberregarding the friend zone, are mainly two.
You have entered the friend zone eitherbecause you didn't express erotic interest directly, so you delayed the wholeprocedure, because you were afraid of getting rejected, you don't know howto show you interest or whatever.
In a future video I'll talk about, the assumptions we make and aren't helping us at all, on the contrarythey sabotage us and don't let us express our intentions furtherand clarify things, but also reveal the truthfor both of us and the girl.
The second thing is that at some pointyou showed erotic interest and you earned some kind of rejection back.
And because you believeyou have made a mistake or that if you try a bit more, if you show something different you can win her.
You have kept communicating within a friendly context, simply becauseyou know that if you express you interest again, you are most likelygetting rejected.
So, you keep going and maintain thisfriendly intimacy and communication with this woman, hopingfor a change in her attitude.
It will not change!Move on and if something shows up by her side in the future, you will handle it then.
That was Christos, from Men ofStyle and today we talked about the 7 signs that testify that a womansees you as a friend.